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Speaker 1: In this episode of
Balancing the Christian Life, we
talk with Bart McCrary about
the good character track of the
Balancing the Christian Life
conference.
Welcome to Balancing the
Christian Life.
I'm Dr Kenny Embry.
Join me as we discover how to
be better Christians and people
in the digital age.
Hopefully you know by now that
we're holding the Balancing the
Christian Life online conference
July 27th through 29th.
To help give you an idea about
what we're going to be talking
about, I'm talking with my old
friend, mark McCrary.
He's in charge of the track
about having good character.
Mark is a longtime friend and
someone I've used many times in
the podcast.
He's also both an elder and
evangelist at Douglas Hills in
the Louisville, kentucky area.
So, mark, how did you develop
the theme for the conference?
Speaker 2: The first thing I
began to ask is well, what is
character?
And character has been defined,
and, I think, appropriately so.
You could delve into this more,
but just a quick definition
your character is who you are
when no one's around.
Well, if we want to talk about
good character, who defines what
is good?
Obvious answer God defines
what's good.
Speaker 1: That's right.
Speaker 2: No one's arguing with
this, so far right.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: And if God defines
what's good, then where does he
define what good character is?
There are a lot of places you
could look, but for the sake of
this track, where we're going to
sit is going to be Galatians,
chapter five, and the fruit of
the Spirit.
So if God defines what's good
and what good character is,
where would we look?
And the Galatians chapter five
is going to be where we're going
to sit Galatians, chapter five,
beginning verse 22,.
But the fruit of the Spirit is
love, joy, peace, patience,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness
, gentleness, self-control.
Against such there is no law,
and those who belong in Christ
Jesus have crucified the flesh
with his passions and desires.
I had at one point thought
about doing one lesson on all
the works of the flesh.
Decided against this.
Let's just focus on the fruit
of the Spirit within our life
and let that be the thing that
defines what good character is.
Speaker 1: I think that's a
great idea it makes me feel so
much better.
How many fruits of the Spirit
are there?
Speaker 2: Nine, that's right.
Speaker 1: Which means you have
the most number of speakers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I've got
the best speakers too.
By the way, I'm joking, I don't
want speaker envy in this, but
there's a good, I think a good
list of very thoughtful guys
that are going to challenge
those who jump in.
Whether it's when these tracks
are presented live and I'll give
when they're going to be All
right If someone jumps in later
on I think there are going to be
some really challenging,
thoughtful ideas are going to be
brought up by the men who just
have taken a nosedive into what
each one of the aspects of the
fruit of the Spirit is that Paul
sort of delineates here and
that's the interesting thing he
calls it the fruit singular of
the Spirit, but then he
delineates within that fruit
different aspects and how the
fruit of the Spirit is
manifested within our life.
Speaker 1: That's exactly right.
So why don't you tell me some
of these guys who's going to be
talking about what?
Speaker 2: Okay, so Thursday
night, july 27th, at 7pm Eastern
Standard Time, we're going to
look at the first fruit of the
Spirit.
What a great place to start.
The first yes, and that is love
.
Okay, yes, jason Longstreet,
who is just an incredible Bible
student.
Yes, he's going to talk about
love, and love is one of those
areas that you probably heard
when you were growing up, kenny.
You probably heard people
preachers, belittle the topic of
love the way I did, okay, and
it was like well, that person
just preached on love, as if
love is just this throwaway
issue, and the more I read
scripture, the more I come to
the conclusion that love is
really the centerpiece of
Christianity.
I agree, jesus'.
Statement of John 13, verses 34
through 35, by this, all men
will know you're my disciples.
They'll know am I a Spiritual
Prophet or not, by the fact that
you don't give to an orphanage.
You were baptized for the
mission of sins.
You don't sin with sing, with
an instrument of music and, by
the way, I'm not making light of
those issues, right, all right.
But Jesus said People will know
we are his disciples by how we
love one another.
That's right.
That is so weighty, john and
his epistle if you don't love.
You cannot know God right.
So that's going to be the first
one.
Of course, when we talk about
the issue of love, we understand
that love is an action, it's
not an emotion, although I would
also argue, the more I act in a
loving way toward other people,
the more the emotion Will
probably come.
But we get it mixed around.
We think that love is this
emotion and so I don't.
I don't have this emotion for
this person.
Therefore I don't love them,
and I think the biblical answer
is no.
You love them because you care
about them.
You want them to go to heaven.
You're going to act in a loving
way.
How do you feel towards them is
really beside the point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, although I've
made this point before and I'm
sure you agree with it which is
if you were to tell Teresa, your
wife you know I love you deeply
but I have absolutely no
emotion for you at all.
That that would be very
satisfactory.
Speaker 2: No, it wouldn't, and
that's why I said I think the
more we act in love towards
other people, the more we will
find to emotionally love about
other people.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, that that
I completely agree with.
Yeah, it's.
It's almost like we sometimes
overreact to no really.
So anyway, I do know Jason is a
wonderful guy.
I've known Jason for years.
Yeah, great choice.
Speaker 2: So that's.
That's gonna be the first one,
the foundational one.
At 8 o'clock on Thursday night
to 27th, I'm going to address
the issue of joy.
Okay, and what that means.
Yeah, and I think that's
another one that's misunderstood
.
Boy Kenny, it seems like I've
run across Christians over the
years who think that the more
morose they are, the deeper they
are.
Yeah, and and I read passages
like this, our polls Statement
in Philippians, chapter 4, we've
choice in the Lord.
Always, again, I say nice ways
yeah, and I don't think that the
more swollen we are, the more
godly we are.
No, I think the more joyful.
Now, as I say that I'm not, I
don't live this Pollyanna life
when I think that everything
about the Christian life and I
don't think the biblical ideas,
everything about the Christian
life has happy, happy, joy, joy.
Obviously we are, and some
Christians, look, have you know?
They have been through the
ringer and I pray for them often
and I'm amazed at how they.
They get one foot in front of
the other one.
Yeah, week after week and day
after day.
Some people have, they've got
very challenging lives and I do
believe that there are seasons
that we will go through where we
may not Show the most joy
within our lives at the moment.
Right, but I guess I would argue
I've used the illustration of
the ocean that On the top of the
ocean, the top of the ocean is
is affected by storms and winds,
and so it may be chaotic at
times, but the farther down you
go, the more contented and the
more calm the waters are.
Right, there are times in our
lives that Circumstances are
going to play upon our outward
circumstances, and so they will
be chaotic, but the joy that the
Christian has is a deep inward
joy.
Yeah, and I would also argue,
the more we have that deep
inward joy, the more that's
going to define my life, right,
not the circumstances.
So I do know that that's really
where we're gonna go.
We're gonna look at how, how
does the child of God Because
he's a child of God how does he
define his life right?
And the more we define our
lives, even through our
Obstacles and challenges, by
Christ, our home in heaven one
day, I think, the more joy and
contentment will have, right.
Speaker 1: So that's gonna be
the second track.
Okay, you can say completely
agree, second, yes, second
session.
Speaker 2: I do agree with that.
Speaker 1: Okay, we don't often
agree, but that is what I agree.
Speaker 2: I feel pretty good
about this so far.
Oh good, thursday night at nine
o'clock we're going to have our
third and final session for
that track and that's gonna be
presented by Colter Wickerham.
Oh yeah, culture.
Some of these guys, a number of
these guys, are going to be
former interns that we've had at
Douglas Hills and these are
gonna.
I've worked with a lot, I've
valued them, and Colter has just
a mind for Looking at things in
unique ways and he's going to
dress nine o'clock on Thursday
night to 27th.
The issue of peace and, as I'm
as I'm giving a breakdown of
these sessions, I don't know
what these guys are gonna do
with them.
I know what I'm gonna do with
mine.
So sure, the session on joy I'm
pretty sure that one's pretty,
we can lock that one in.
Colter's gonna deal with the
issue of peace with God, yeah,
and then Maybe even peace within
ourselves, because that's an
area where I've known a lot of
Christians who were just
unsettled within their own lives
, unsettled with their, their
view of what it means to be
forgiven.
They struggle with forgiveness
and I think that's part of this
idea of peace peace that you've
been forgiven, and then peace
with others.
That's certainly something Paul
addresses a lot.
Ephesians, chapter 2 peace
between Jews and Gentiles.
How do we get along with each
other?
So, yeah, we're gonna be
dealing with the that aspect of
the fruit of the spirit peace.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I Think
that sounds great as well.
Okay, and at Colter, if I'm not
mistaken, I think Steve
Wolfgang has Colter doing
something on the fourth track as
well.
Speaker 2: I think Colter is
gonna be in a group session
there, so he's gonna be doing
double-duty.
Yeah, so I'm looking, I'm
looking forward to what Colter
shares.
All right, friday night, the
28th, 7 pm Eastern Standard Time
.
David Norfleet, who works with
me here, he's gonna be dealing
with the issue of patience.
All right, and there I know
you've talked about this in a
previous podcast there really is
a progression that I think is
found moving from one aspect to
the other.
And Yet, the more we have love
in our hearts, the more we have
joy in our hearts and more we
have peace in our hearts, the
more patience we can have with
other people.
Right, right, and this is Okay,
this is one that, yeah, we can.
We can all identify that it's a
challenge sometimes to have
patience with other people, yeah
, especially, maybe sometimes,
other believers, our brothers
and sisters in Christ.
We see their failings, their,
their Irritations within our
life, but maybe sometimes we
have to learn to be patient with
God.
Yeah, god doesn't work as
quickly as we would like for him
to work.
He doesn't work on our table
and again, this would be another
one, like peace, that we
learned to have to learn to be
patient with ourselves.
I.
Speaker 1: I completely agree
with that as well.
I think, yeah, that idea of
patience, or sometimes called
perseverance, I I think that's
the one that we probably do not
address very often, but I think
it's probably the one that we
probably deal with the most
often.
Because, the fact of the matter
is, most of our life is not on
our timetable.
It's on somebody else's
timetable, and patience is
something that you have to learn
Well especially again, since
we're in a community of
believers, in a church.
Speaker 2: The only way a church
is going to survive is, if we
can, because of our relationship
with the Lord, if we can learn
to be patient with one another.
And again, this idea of being
patient with yourself, patient
with your struggles, with your
lack of understanding, sometimes
with your failings,
understanding that when you're
trying to serve the Lord, you
still want to fail sometimes,
and I shouldn't do that.
That shouldn't happen and I
know it shouldn't, but sometimes
we've got to learn from our
mistakes and stand back and
understand that God's forgiven
us and if he's forgiven us, he's
put it behind us, and we need
to as well.
We need to move forward.
Speaker 1: That's right.
Yeah, that's exactly right.
And, by the way, david Norfleet
is somebody that I have known
for decades and he's just an
excellent guy.
So I mean, I'm glad you got him
and he's I know, he's somebody
who you work with, yeah, yeah,
and somebody that you've known
for decades as well.
Speaker 2: That's right, and
I've got complete confidence
He'll do a great job.
Friday night.
Friday night eight o'clock on
the 28th, the next lesson will
be kindness, Okay, and I pulled
in a guy that I have known for
30 years and that's Joe Shane.
I don't know Joe.
Joe is just one of these.
He's a preacher that preached
at my home church when I was
growing up and had this seminal
role within my life.
In fact, probably if I didn't
so want the session on joy, I
would have given it to him
because Joe was one of the and
he just hit me at the right time
in my life Late teens, early
20s, I was getting married, A
lot of things changing my life.
My ability to process
information, to understand
Christianity better was just
beginning to grow.
But he really helped me to see
that a child of God can have joy
within his life and he can have
confidence and salvation.
So he's going to deal with the
issue of kindness and striving
and this one really is dealing
with how we treat other people.
Yeah, Because of love and joy
and peace and patience, and how
it can manifest itself in
kindness within my life.
Just this morning we have at
Douglas Hills we have a morning
five five-ish minute broadcast
on Facebook called the Morning
Five and Noah works and I looked
at Psalm 112.
And we were talking about the
person who is just praising the
Lord.
He's at peace with the Lord and
in verse eight it says he has
distributed freely, he has given
to the poor his righteousness
and joy forever, and I think
that's what kindness is all
about.
Yeah, when we have complete
confidence in God, I don't have
to fight with someone else and
compete with someone else.
I can be kind to other people
because I know that God is going
to be there with me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I hope this
is addressed as well and I feel
fairly certain it probably will
be.
And then, when we talk about
the difference between kindness
and niceness, that there's a
difference between being nice
and being kind, and sometimes
what would you say?
Speaker 2: that is Kenny.
Speaker 1: Kindness is something
where you are putting other
people's needs, where you're
helping benefit them as much as
you can.
So, for example, if somebody
has a dream of being a singer
but they do not have the ability
in that the nice thing would be
to say that they have a nice
voice, that they have a good
voice, but the kind thing would
be to try to channel them in a
direction that gets them away
from singing, because if that is
not their true talent, it is
not kind to lead them on in such
a way that they believe, no, I
really need to pursue this.
Kind people can't upset people,
but I think there is a big
difference between kindness and
niceness.
Speaker 2: That's a good
distinction.
Maybe a biblical example of
that would be in 2 Samuel,
chapter 12, where Nathan rebuked
David.
I mean, the safe thing to do is
keep your mouth shut.
Don't rebuk the king.
The kind thing the nice thing
to do would be hey, you know
you're good, but what David
needed to hear.
The kind thing was hey, you're
the man you are wrong.
You are the man, you are right.
Speaker 1: You are the man, you
are right, and you're the one
that needs to change and I've
benefited over the years from
brethren who have been kind to
me because they told me what the
I needed to hear, rather than
being nice to me and telling me
what I wanted to hear.
Speaker 2: Right, I think I'm
just guessing at this point that
there will be some overlap.
Speaker 1: So anyway, but anyway
, and kindness is one of those
that I think it's short-tripped
as well, but anyway, who else is
on the docket?
Speaker 2: All right, so then,
friday night at 9 o'clock, july
28, jared Gunter.
He's a former trainee as well,
good-might as well.
He's going to deal with the
issue of goodness.
And this is really, really,
really looking at our moral
character.
Okay, this one really jumps
into, and I think part of that
too, is what we appreciate.
Do we appreciate good things,
as Paul would say in Philippians
, chapter four, verse eight?
Do we think on things that are
good?
So how does goodness, how is it
expressed within our lives?
All right, then, on Saturday,
the 29th, tristan Gentriero,
another former intern, is going
to address the issue.
That's just a common theme
among some of these guys, I'm
noticing that.
Yeah Well, because I know what
they're going to do you know?
these guys.
I know what they can bring to
the table.
That's right, and people will
benefit so much.
Tristan is going to deal with
the issue of being faithful,
faithfulness, and part of that
one is faithful to God.
What does that mean?
To be faithful to God but then
faithful to others?
Right, how do we show
faithfulness to others?
Standing by them, believing in
them, encouraging them?
Now, that's going to be a
really good track, yeah, I agree
.
Then at three o'clock on
Saturday, july 29th, austin
Shear, another former intern, is
going to address the issue of
gentleness.
That, along with the idea of
being kind, they are somewhat
linked to one another, but I
think they are.
They're perhaps separated in
that.
Kindness is how I treat them,
what I say to them.
Gentleness is how I deal with
them, how I handle them, and I
think that's another area, kenny
, that maybe brethren have
failed at over the years.
I remember, case in point, when
I was a kid kid, I was probably
17 years old.
That qualifies as a kid, right,
that absolutely qualifies as a
kid, but go ahead.
I had lead singing one night
and after services, one of the
elders at the time came up right
after services and just jumped
on me and said you realize that
song's unscriptural right, right
, right.
And I'm a 17-year-old kid, you
know, and one of the elders just
beat me down in a way that
wasn't gentle.
In contrast, one of the other
elders, whenever I would preach,
I looked forward to meeting him
in one of the side hallways
after services because he would
always put his arm around me and
encourage me.
Now he might correct me, but
there was always a gentleness in
the way that he did it.
And as I say, that I know that
there have been times that I
probably have not been as gentle
with my corrections of other
people as I should have, and
gentleness is just such an
important way of the way that we
deal with one another.
Another scriptural example of
gentleness would be 2
Corinthians, chapter two,
wherein 1 Corinthians chapter
five, paul deals with the
brother who had been withdrawn
from Right.
We're not told in 2 Corinthians
two that we're dealing with the
same brother, but Paul does
deal with a brother who had been
forgiven and he tells the
brethren to be careful how you
deal with him.
Right Said, forgive him and
comfort him.
Are he maybe overwhelmed by
excessive sorrow?
So I beg you to reaffirm your
love for him, right, that's
gentleness.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if
you're familiar with the word
that's actually used there, but
it's also translated meekness.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And that idea that,
because there's a misconception
about both meekness and
gentleness and it's the idea
that you have to be weak, and
the argument that I've heard and
I know you've heard the same
thing only strong people can be
gentle.
Weak people are just weak.
Yeah, the idea is that you have
the strength to do something,
but you're putting that strength
under control and that I guess
one of the arguments that I
would put up against all of this
is that gentleness has to have
strength behind it.
If it doesn't, it's just
weakness.
Yeah, and there's not anywhere
in these virtues that that is
something good.
Weakness is not a virtue.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Gentleness is,
weakness is.
Speaker 2: It's weak and it's
mean.
Yeah, and unfortunately, let's
just be honest we have all seen
Christians who have been mean to
other people.
Speaker 1: Oh heavens, yes, oh
yes.
Speaker 2: And they have said
something and they wrapped
themselves in the cloak of well,
I'm just telling the truth.
Maybe you are, but, kenny, as
our culture changes, we're going
to have to recognize that as we
deal with a lot of practices
that are going to be showing up
in our churches more yeah,
practices such as the struggle
of homosexuality, of course,
transgenderism and things like
that.
We've got to figure out how can
we stand for truth, but do it
in a gentle way, and we cannot
comfort ourselves by saying
we're going to stand for truth
and, however people take it,
they take it that way.
We are called upon to present
the truth in gentle ways, and we
got to figure that one out, so
that's going to be an important
one OK.
All right and lastly last one
Self-control.
Self-control On the 29th at
four o'clock.
We're just going to play the
podcast that you did with Scott
Beyer and let's take it.
Speaker 1: And Luther Pratt yeah
, yeah, no.
Speaker 2: No, another former
intern, adam Littmer In fact,
adam was the first guy that I
worked with in our training
program and Adams, all these
guys again, all of them are just
.
They've got great minds, good
students of the Bible, great
ways of presenting scripture.
Adam's going to talk about the
idea of self-control.
Self-control is the idea of
determining to be godly.
I think of Paul's statement 1
Corinthians, chapter 10, verse
23,.
All things are lawful, but all
things are not helpful
Self-control wrestles with.
Is this issue helpful to be
spiritually or not?
And do I 1 Peter, chapter 4,
verses 1 through 5, do I put
aside things that are helpful to
me, right?
Do I strive to live in a way
that pleases the Lord, and what
does that demand?
That demands I'm going to have
to put away what I want to do in
order to say, yes, what I want
to do is what I shouldn't do,
right, but what I really, really
want to do is what God wants me
to do, and am I going to pursue
that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
Well, we talked about Control a
couple of weeks ago, so this is
one that's fresh on my mind and
I know there are a lot of
different directions to take
that, and I look forward to what
the animal, how Adam, will take
that.
Speaker 2: So, anyway, no one,
no one in any of these
discussions are going to be
reinventing the wheel, you know,
and at the end of the day it's
just.
These are all great reminders to
, and I think what they become
are Benchmarks for me to
determine, because one of the
questions in this whole issue of
the fruit of the spirit Kenny,
is Does Does this happen to us
by the Holy Spirit or do I make
these things happen in my life?
All right, I come down on.
I found a great quote in the
new international commentary of
the New Testament.
That said, the phrase directly
ascribes the power of Frutation
not to the believer himself but
to the spirit, and Effectively
hints that the qualities
enumerated are not the result of
strenuous Observance of an
external legal code but the
natural product of a life
controlled and guided by the
spirit.
So what that is saying is, I
think, when I submit to God and
I submit to the guidance of the
Holy Spirit, from the word of
God and the spirit within my
life, these things are going to
be the result.
Right, ergo, these become and I
don't get to say the word ergo
that often I was about to say
this is exciting now.
Ergo, if I am submitting to God
, then I ought to be seeing
these benchmarks within my life.
Right, so it makes sense.
Speaker 1: That makes perfect
sense, I think, one of the go
ahead.
Speaker 2: Well, and I may not
see them all at one time.
Okay, there's a growth here,
mm-hmm.
But but if I've been doing this
Christian thing for five, ten,
fifteen years, I ought to be
able to see.
Maybe not these characteristics
in my life perfectly, but I
need to be seeing each one of
these.
And if I'm not seeing them,
then I need to go back to
question zero, and that is am I
allowing God To take over my
life and I am I submitting to
his spirit within my life?
Speaker 1: Right.
I think the way you think, the
way you're conceptualizing this,
is right.
When you start thinking about,
if you choose God as your leader
, these are the virtues that you
can expect to start seeing in
your life.
By the way, I mean, you didn't
deal with any of these and I
make I understand why you didn't
.
But when you look at At the, at
the works of the flesh up in
verse 19, quite frankly, that's
what's get all he gets all the
press.
Yeah that's what gets all the
attention.
I mean, everybody knows and he,
but any everybody under a
certain age knows the name and
rotate.
At this point I'll go ahead and
tell you I mean he's.
He's a guy who talks about
sexual immorality, he talks
about impurity, he talks about
sensuality, he talks I mean the
things that Andrew that make and
rotates.
And let me give him his do.
I think he's doing a really
good job of diagnosing a problem
with men, yeah, but but his
solutions, his solutions, are
the works of this, are the work
of the flesh.
Yeah, exactly and that's giving
him a lot of Attention and
notoriety.
Why, well?
Speaker 2: and jail time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, yeah, but
but one of the things that I
would say, when you look at the
fruits through the spirit, that
doesn't get a lot of press
Because, no, these kind of
people, yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 2: No, I think you're
exactly right.
And the reason why is I Can
look at the works of the flesh
and feel pretty good about
myself.
Okay, I, I'm not engaged in
idolatry, sorcery, in the tea
strife Drunk, in this.
I can.
I can look at those things.
You know I'm doing.
I'm not gonna sing out of the
park when I, when I look at the
fruit of the spirit, though, as
a child, as a Christian, I'm
challenged a little bit more
because, while I may not
Outwardly be engaged in the
works of the flesh, although
inwardly, in my heart, I may be
right Love, joy, peace, patience
, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness,
self-control.
Am I showing the positives?
Yeah, it's one thing.
To put off the negatives,
that's.
That's one of the reasons why I
think scripture is just so
wonderful and the passages like
Colossians, chapter 3, that
tells us okay, as a Christian,
put off these things.
Well, oh good, right, I'm
putting those off.
Yeah, but are you putting on
these other things, right?
It's as Christians.
We don't define ourselves as
people who don't do certain
things, and that's been Boy
again.
Let's be honest, that's the way
we, that's the realm we like to
operate in.
I am not Doing these wicked
things, but what am I doing?
That's where the fruit of the
spirit comes in.
Speaker 1: I Would say this as
well I don't disagree with
anything you just said there,
but I would say this as well
Virtue and morality rarely get
publicity.
That if you are and I can't let
me borrow my own phrase if you
are good and you do good, the
world doesn't notice very well.
If you are bad, if you're evil,
the world has a conversation to
have with you.
Now You're suddenly much more
interesting to them.
But it's not interest for the
right reasons.
It's interest because, let's
face it, you're doing stuff that
we can all criticize.
Now.
Does that make sense?
That's right.
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, well, as
you were saying that, I was
thinking about the phrase I've
seen on the back of bumper
stickers, on the backs of cars
several times well-behaved women
seldom make history.
Yeah, okay, and I'm not picking
on women here, but that's the
general idea that to make
history you've got to be noticed
and you've got to be loud and
proud.
And the fruit of the spirit
male or female argues against
that.
The fruit of the spirit says
the people who are genuinely
remembered are the women and the
men who sometimes work behind
the scenes.
They're the people that you can
list, that and I can list that
few people will ever remember
the Hank Caldmans or the Frank
Butler's or the Betty Haines's
but they are important people to
me because they were people who
ultimately, in my estimation,
submitted to God and allowed the
spirit to work within their
life and they bore the fruit of
the spirit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.
I think that's the fact of the
matter is, we all know the names
of the people who do the works
of the flesh, but if you give
yourself three seconds, the
people that you love are the
people who are working the
fruits of the spirit.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And that's just
something else.
Speaker 2: All right, and look.
The challenge I mean the
challenge for us today is we
live in a world where, as you
just said, the people who work
the works of the flesh are the
ones who are noticed, they're
the ones who get the likes.
They're the social influencers
yeah, they are the ones that we
are told to admire and,
unfortunately, a lot of our
young people are struggling with
that concept right now and the
concept of no, you need to be
the person that shows all these
characteristics, you need to be
a person of good character.
Is it noticed as much?
Yeah, but the end reward is far
, far greater.
I mean you brought up the Tate
guy Before last year and he was
arrested.
He made a lot of noise and had
a lot of followers.
Still has followers.
Yeah, he does, but now things
aren't quite as good for him now
, and that's what's going to
happen if you don't have good
character.
Yeah, that's right, you'll ride
high for a while, but it's
gonna blow up in your face at
some point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if it does
not blow up in their face in
this lifetime, it will not
sustain them Right?
They cannot save themselves.
All right, mark, I certainly
appreciate the guys, that you
again.
Once I hand these tracks off,
I'm always interested to see the
directions you guys take them,
and this is a fabulous direction
to take.
This I will say it again this
year.
I said it last year.
I appreciate you doing this.
I know this is work.
I know this takes some time to
put together.
I am extremely impressed with
what you came up with.
I've known you far too long to
you know that I love you.
You know that this is something
that I'm number one not
surprised about it, because I
knew you would do this well at
it, but I'm also really
gratified.
You and I have been friends for
a long time and this is just
proof positive of one of the
reasons we are.
Yeah, this is exactly what I
would expect from you.
Speaker 2: You know I've told
you, Kenny, I think this is a
great idea.
Anytime you get to study the
word of God is good.
When you can study the word of
God with people who are really
good at presenting ideas, it's
wonderful.
And if you can study the word
of God with people who have
great ideas and they'll
challenge you from the comfort
of your own home, that's
Christmas, dude, that is
fantastic.
You know, I think it's a
wonderful opportunity for people
to sit back and just with
students of the Bible, sit back
and take an hour and then not
only to hear them but to have
the ability to go back and hear
again, listen again.
One of the issues going on with
these tracks are multiple
tracks being played at the same
time.
To be able to go back.
That's exactly right and listen
to another track later.
You know you've got your number
one pig for that evening at
seven o'clock that you can
listen to, but you can go back
later.
I appreciate so much you pulling
something together like this.
Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate
that.
The only other thing that I
wanna add into that I love that
this is a live session where
we're actually able to ask
questions, we're able to talk to
the speaker, we're able to talk
to one another.
That, to me, is worth something
.
So anyway, I appreciate this
man.
Speaker 2: Hey, I appreciate you
, buddy, good to see ya.
Speaker 1: Good to see you.
Obviously, mark is a good
friend outside of several times.
I'm excited about what we're
going to be doing in late July.
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is free.
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If you didn't get that, I've
left the address in the show
notes.
So until next time, let's be
good and do good.