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Speaker 1: In this episode of
Balancing the Christian Life, we
talk about being devoted to God
.
Welcome to Balancing the
Christian Life.
I'm Dr Kenny Embry.
Join me as we discover how to
be better Christians and people
in the digital age.
So I got this call from my son,
jake.
Usually when I get these kind
of calls, I know they're not
good.
It was about 6 o'clock pm on a
Friday night and I knew Jake was
supposed to be getting off work
soon.
Hey, dad, something's going on
with the car.
What's it doing?
I asked.
Well, it's sort of shaking.
I mean, it's kind of drivable,
but not really.
It started on the highway but I
was able to pull it into a gas
station here.
Can you hear it?
Well, I couldn't.
When I suspected, whatever it
was, the news wasn't going to be
great.
My wife looked at me and asked
so what are you going to do?
I don't know that.
We have many options, I said.
I drove out to where Jake was,
in a gas station parking lot,
and I saw what he was trying to
describe the car was shaking
uncontrollably.
I'm not a mechanic, but I know
this wasn't good.
So I began thinking about all
the phone calls this would take.
I'd need a tow truck, but not
tonight, because my garage
doesn't take cars after hours.
I'd need to schedule that We'd
need a rental car, but Friday
night wasn't the time to reserve
one.
However, the airport had a
24-hour rental car desk so I
could get one there, but that
meant a two-hour round trip.
I sort of went into autopilot,
solving problems in the order
they needed to be solved.
The problem car is my 2010 red
Toyota Prius with about 250,000
miles on it.
It's not a sexy car, but it has
been an extremely reliable one.
It always starts, it gets great
gas mileage, but cars were out.
There's a time when you're
sending good money after bad,
and I was wondering if this was
that time.
On Monday, my guys down at the
repair shop confirmed my amateur
suspicion it was a blown head
gasket.
Again, I don't know anything
about cars, but I knew this was
one of the more expensive
repairs and I also knew this was
going to be a big decision.
Was I done with my Prius or did
I need to give this car another
chance?
There's a metal math you have
to do at times like this and I
wasn't sure what the right
answer was.
As Christians, we need to
understand brokenness.
Specifically, we need to
understand our brokenness.
I've talked to several people
who stress that God fixes our
brokenness, and I agree.
But that formula only works
when you take God up on his
offer.
A broken car and a broken
person both need fixing, but how
broken things get fixed depends
entirely on who you belong to.
Unlike my car, we need to
recognize how bad off we truly
are.
Look, you're a wreck and it's
important that you see that
You've done something far worse
than blow a head gasket.
You're a sinner and you can't
fix that, I know.
Compared to your friends and
family, you're pretty good and
maybe even excellent, but
there's something in you that is
truly broken.
You didn't inherit it and it
wasn't put into you, but you
know there have been things
where you know the right thing
to do and you didn't do it.
On one hand, that's horrible
news, because the law you broke
isn't yours and the price you
have to pay is high.
On the other hand, this is
excellent news, because God came
for broken people.
God came for you.
God paid the high price so that
you can be fixed, and not fixed
in the sense that you're never
going to have problems again,
but fixed in the sense that the
solution to sin is always with
you.
Look, God favors family
specifically, god favors people
who are devoted to Him, not
perfect in action, but devoted
in heart.
There's a huge difference
between those two things.
When God is simply covering
over my sin, when God is
overlooking terrible decisions,
then we can get to the point
where we feel like we belong in
what I call revolving door
Christianity.
The relationship you have with
God is based on how well you
have lived your life, and as
good as you do that, as perfect
as today might be, or as good as
you are in doing Christianity,
it's not enough.
Can God keep you from sinning?
Well, yes, but as a Christian,
you will still sin.
Yes, it's important you try to
send less because you are
grateful for God who has fixed
the broken relationship, but you
are not sinless.
Paul, writing to the Ephesians,
said God, being rich in mercy
because of the great love with
which he loved us even when we
were dead in our trespasses,
made us alive together with
Christ.
By grace, you have been saved
and raised us up with Him and
seated us with Him in the
heavenly places in Christ Jesus,
so that in the coming ages he
might show the immeasurable
riches of His grace in kindness
toward us in Christ Jesus, for
by grace you have been saved
through faith, and this is not
your own doing.
It is the gift of God, not as a
result of works, so that no one
may boast, for we are His
workmanship, created in Christ
Jesus for good works, which God
prepared beforehand that we
should walk in them.
Yeah, that's a lot.
But what does it mean?
Well, it means because we are
devoted to God.
God is devoted to us.
He saves us, not because we're
good, but because he loves us.
He's in a relationship with us.
So what do we do as a result?
Well, in imperfect ways, we do
good works, and those good works
don't earn us this relationship
.
We are in his family because he
chose us and we accepted.
God knows our flaws and as long
as we have faith, as long as we
trust him, he will remain
devoted to us.
So the bad news is we're
terribly broken and the good
news is our owner is God and he
still claims us.
He claims us even if we're
broken with a busted head gasket
.
As a car owner, I learned a long
time ago it doesn't make much
sense to become sentimental
about cars, computers or cell
phones.
They all wear out after a while
.
You will be back in the market
for a new one sooner than you
probably want to be, because
these are all replaceable.
Newer cars are generally better
cars because they have fewer
problems.
Yeah, I know you're thinking
about the car you had in the
past that you wish you had again
, but in general, today's cars
have better safety features, are
more fuel efficient and have
better features overall.
But God isn't like that.
In Luke 15, jesus tells three
short parables one of a lost
sheep, one of a lost coin and
one of a lost son.
The story of the prodigal son
is a story most of us know.
That's my opinion.
The story is primarily about
the older brother depicted in
the last third of the story.
If you're familiar with this
story, you know the younger son
takes the money his dad is
planning to give the boys for an
inheritance and he wastes it on
some pretty poor choices,
including prostitutes.
And when the younger brother
sinks about as low as he can go,
when he blows the head gasket,
he decides to try.
Coming back home, limping back
useless and worthless, but
that's not the way his dad saw
him at all.
His dad gives him new clothes
and welcomes him back to the
family.
However, the older brother sees
all the fuss his dad is making
and begins pouting that he never
had this kind of attention
given to him.
He has worked faithfully for
his dad, even while this younger
son was wasting his inheritance
and his family's reputation.
The older brother is making a
good case for works-based
Christianity, but the father
tells the older son it's the
relationship that is important.
The younger son has decided to
once again be devoted.
He came home and that is worth
celebrating.
What the Father doesn't say is
the younger Son was welcomed not
because he be paved well, but
because he accepted the grace of
His Father.
God sees value in us, even when
we don't.
He loves us even when we are
unlovable, like my car, which I
rely on for transportation.
God doesn't need us, he wants
us, he loves us.
He is devoted to us when we are
devoted to Him.
So I was doing the metal math in
my head for the possible repair
when I talked to my guy.
Not only does he fix hybrids
like mine, but he owns a
dealership focused primarily on
Priuses.
I asked Him what he would do in
my situation.
Well, he said in situations
like this, it's almost always
better to fix what you've got
than buy another.
This surprised me.
You don't think this would be
throwing good money after bad?
I asked no, he said Look, I
sell these cars all the time.
There's one coming on the lot
tomorrow with over 500,000 miles
on it and I know it will sell
because I've sold them before.
Most people get bored with their
cars before they truly wear out
.
You will almost always come out
ahead fixing what you've got
than getting something new.
The car you brought in has a
major problem, but we can fix it
for about half the cost of
replacing it and I can get you
another 10 or 15 years out of
that one.
I didn't expect Him to say that
.
It made me feel like he was
being honest about my choice.
I think it also made me think
more about my little red Prius.
I hadn't put many repairs on it
and it had served me well, so I
decided to get it fixed and I
still feel a little strange
about that choice.
I mean, I knew the track record
of the car, I knew the track
record of this guy and how he
had always treated me well, and
I knew what he was telling me
made sense.
But I still feel like I was
putting a lot of faith in both
the car and the guy.
Could this turn out badly?
Could I be making the wrong
decision?
I don't know, but I do have
faith.
Faith in God and faith in my
car and a repairman aren't the
same thing in one way, but in
another way it's very similar.
God has always required faith of
His followers.
In Hebrews 11, we are told of
so many characters who simply
had to trust God to come through
on His promises and make things
good.
Abraham had three important
promises given to him and he
didn't see them fulfilled during
his lifetime.
Yes, he had a son, but he
didn't have a great nation.
Yes, he moved from his homeland
to a place where he owned
practically no land at all
except some place to bury Sarah.
And yes, he was blessed by God.
And Abraham blessed others, but
not nearly to the extent God
seemed to promise.
And yet Abraham trusted God
because God was trustworthy.
God is still trustworthy.
God has made great promises to
those who are devoted to Him, so
our job is to do the next right
thing and let God take care of
the outcomes.
Will my car problems turn out
well?
Let's be clear I don't think
God is as worried about my
Priests as I am, but I know God
takes care of me.
I know the car guy is giving me
the best advice he's got and I
know if I continue to keep my
car maintained, I've at least
done the right thing.
I'm just going to have to have
faith.
Frankly, deciding what I can do
with what I have where I am is
about as good as I can do in
anything, and that's all that
God has ever expected any of us
to do.
As for the good thing I'm
thinking about, I'm grateful for
good friends who remind me of
simple truths.
Craig Peane has sent me a
Sunday text message for years
now, and this morning his text
focused on hope.
I love that.
It's nice to be reminded about
hope, but it's even better being
reminded by someone who is so
devoted by God.
I'm grateful for that.
So until next time, let's be
good and do good.